Update login stuff

README.md

@@ -45,8 +45,9 @@ cp ./env.example ./.env
 cp ./host/convex/docker/env.example ./host/convex/docker/.env
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-### Start self hosted convex by running
+### Start self hosted convex
 
+The basic gist is to run the commands below after you have filled out the environment variables you plan to use, but you should ultimately follow the [guide they provide](https://github.com/get-convex/convex-backend/tree/main/self-hosted)
 ```bash
 cd ./host/convex/docker
 sudo docker compose up -d